Hmmm so i was wondering whether its a good idea or not to try and see the best in people. Even if you know a person has flaws (and in some case many!) surely you should try to be positive? If not you would constantly be expecting that person to let you down.
Everyone has flaws. Everyone. Even if they arent obvious at first. Is it better to tell that person how flawed they are? In the hope that they may improve? But surely if a person has spent all there life behaving the way they do then they aren't going to change. Is it ever acceptable to try and change someone? I think not.
The reason you are drawn to someone is due to the good things they either do or the good person they are. So why is it bad to tell someone how ace they can be. You can still think that they have douchebag qualities even if you dont scream them in their face!
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